Thursday, October 27, 2011

About That Name...


While Miller Hawkins Badanes may sound vaguely like distinguished white-shoe law firm, let us share with you some of the rationale of naming our son.

Even from before we found out his gender, we knew that we wanted to use family names that could honor and remember Miller's ancestry. Hopefully, in sharing this with him one day, we can encourage him to research more about those people for whom he's named. And, let's be honest, Miller Hawkins sounds a lot better than Nachum Shutzkwer Badanes, a name five generations up from Miller (sons to fathers), suggested by my own Dad.

MILLER
The name Miller comes from one of the oldest of human professions in agriculture, the refiner of grain into flour. As was the case centuries ago, occupations became last (family) names. We are lucky to have the name 'Miller' on both sides of our family. Renzi Dallas Miller was born in Jackson, Mississippi during Reconstruction, just 30 months after the end of the Civil War. He lived his whole life in Jackson County and married Anna Goff in 1894. In 1914, she delivered their tenth child, Bessie Marie Miller. Bessie played college basketball at Louisiana Tech, was a high school teacher in Springhill, LA and gave her maiden name as a middle name to her youngest child, Miller's maternal grandfather Larry Stone.

Later, we found out that the Miller name is also on David's side. In fact, David's great-grandmother was the daughter of William Newton Hawkins and Ida May Miller. Ida May Miller was born in 1863 as a second generation American, as her grandfather's family emigrated from Lanark, Scotland to Cumberland, Maryland in 1838. Her father James Miller was a Baptist minister of the 'fire and brimstone' variety; my great-grandmother notes that he was quite an intimidating figure especially to a grandchild.

HAWKINS

Thanks to my grandmother and her research, much is known about the Hawkins family history. Robert Hawkins was born in Lancashire County, England in 1695 and moved to America at the age of 20 in 1715. He owned around 500 acres in present-day Baltimore County, near Havre de Grace. Amazingly, he lived in three centuries and died at 106 on November 11, 1801. (Various records, even at that time, note his longevity). He strongly supported the American Revolution and sent three sons into service along with 2000 pounds sterling.

David's great-grandmother's father William Newton Hawkins lived from 1855 to 1922 and inherited the family farm and bred horses in Washington County, Pennsylvania.


BADANES

Finally, while Miller's last name was never in doubt, it is interesting to note that he was nearly born an exact century after his great-grandfather, Albert Wiswell Badanes. Al's father came to this country from Lithuania around the turn of the century and his wife Elaine delivered Al on August 15th, 1911. She died on Christmas of 1918 and Al was sent to live with his Aunt in Cincinnati. Except for stints in the war, he lived in Cincinnati his whole life, distributing Barq's root beer through the Midwest.

If you enjoyed this ancestry lesson one half as much as I enjoyed writing it, I think I've done my job. For family members, feel free to correct any dates, names or places in the comments.

Monkey Business



Our little monkey-man Miller won best dressed (infants' division)* at Ginny's company's Halloween party. While I'm certain that he'll only fit in this costume for a few weeks, we plan to get all the mileage out of it as possible. Below is proof that the monkey business extends beyond the Halloween costumes...



* Let the record show that while Miller was the only entrant in the infants' division, I'm sure he would have beaten all challengers

Pumpkin Time


This past weekend, Miller took his first trip to a pumpkin patch as we gathered gourds to decorate our home. Dad learned a hard lesson on heavy pumpkins when we went to weigh our wagon. Who knew that 69 cents per pound would add up so quickly? I just had to test out my new "dad-strength" by grabbing the comically large pumpkin.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Miller's World



While searching for the text for this post, I found another Christopher Morley poem that is so appropriate to our understanding of Miller's reality. It is entitled "Six Weeks Old".

"Six Weeks Old"
Christoper Morley

He is so small he does not know

The summer sun, the winter snow;

The spring that ebbs and comes again,

All this is far beyond his ken.


A little world he feels and sees:
His mother's arms, his mother's knees;
He hides his face against her breast,

And does not care to learn the rest




These beautiful photos come from the incredibly talented Brittany DeFrehn of Sweet Bee Photography. We are so lucky to count Brittany and her husband Sean as friends and hope that she'll continue to so artistically capture our family for years to come.

Miller Turns Two (Months)

It's been an exciting week at the Badanes home in Arlington. Miller turned two months on Tuesday (the 18th) and we had his two month check-up on Wednesday. The little guy is long and lean, measuring in at 24 inches and 12 pounds.

We love the idea of tracking his growth with monthly photos. So far, we are planning two sets of prints - one with the same elephant chair and the other surrounded by stuffed animals (representing the number of months he is old). Here's this month's set:





Does anyone have any other cool ideas for tracking monthly photos? Would love to hear it in the comments.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Miller and Daddy Time




As some of you may have heard, I'm taking an increased role in taking care of Miller during the busy period of Ginny's work. I can't wait to tell Miller when he's older all about this wonderful time we shared. I'm doing my best to record all of my thoughts for him, and sharing some with all of you on our blog.

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For now, I'm going to share the Christopher Morley poem "Secret Laughter" that both my Dad and Grandfather mailed to me upon Miller's arrival:

There is a secret laughter
That often comes to me,
And though I go about my work
As humble as can be,
There is no prince or prelate
I envy--no, not one.
No evil can befall me--
By God, I have a son!

Abby's Birthday at Perry's



For my sister Abby's 24th birthday, we went to Perry's in Adams Morgan for sushi. Miller's at the perfect age for taking him out to restaurants and dinners with friends, as he seems to love the steady noise of crowded restaurants.